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Simon Sinek on LOVE and LEADERSHIP
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"She fell in love with you because when you went to the fridge to get yourself a drink, you got her one without even asking. She fell in love with you because when you had an amazing day at work, and she came home and she had a terrible day at work, you didn't say "Yeah, yeah, yeah, but let me tell you about my day." You sat and listened to her awful day, and you didn't say a thing about your amazing day. This is why she fell in love with you."
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It's a pity his discurse deals only with companies. He should mainly say this about common life which is much more important. His Dunbar's number was already dealt with by Socrates, by the greeks and even all the non-modern guys who saw that problems in a society of 100million persons are very different from 1million times those of 100 persons. Said it otherwise, things are nonlinear. I recommend books by Ivan Illich about this. I miss such consistency in almost all the companies. And also in families (read Christopher Lasch by the way).
Where do I start with all the assumptions made here. 'Leaders care about the answer, they will listen'. Not always and not the majority of them. If you think about it, leaders have been trained to 'listen' because they have been told that 'if you want to be perceived as a good leader you must do a,b,c'. So its more likely that leaders are playing by the rules to get where they need to be e.g. money, success, fame etc. Whether they really care about anyone else except themselves that's a completely different story, with the psychology department.
when you open fridge which is fine and you offer something your partner.....and now if your partner doesn't drink it,it hurts your feeling&if drinks it she/he hurts herself/himself by adding extra pound.What you say people...complicated haha.
Just calling brothers and sisters won't change people attitude,one needs to feel it&also courage is not an external factor as if that's true then the day that external factor is ceased then where should we go looking for..regarding relationship..no matter how much you keep doing if your partner doesn't feel the same then what's the point..I mean you are only human&its obvious that we look for someone else who understands you better but nice talk.Thanks S.Sinek.
It's impossible for any slut..,I mean a woman to love a man. She only loves the things you can do for her and what you can provide.That feeling I'll say is momentarily and fleeting, so all these long lectures is bogus and does not hold shit.
Now I understand my father. Hes been telling us this all our lives, but we never understood. Now Im crying and realized how bad I am as a daughter. Thank you! The time I spent on watching this is worth it.
I really dislike this way he’s talking about love. If a man falls in love with a woman first, and he has to continually woo her to make her love him, then that’s the wrong type of love. That man will have a bad relationship with that woman. It is so much better when a woman falls in love with a man for who he is, not because he loves her first. A woman wants a man who really impresses her, a man who makes her lose control of her emotions. Women are more emotional than men, so a woman’s love should be even stronger than the man’s.
about courage though, courage is about doing the right thing, standing up for the just thing when there is no one to have your back, when there is no one to support you, when everyone is in hiding, taking care of their own interests, when you know there will be bad consequences for you and you do it anyway - it's easy to be brave if there is someone who supports you and protects you.
this is how i think of courage. people i know, however, call this 'stupidity'. i think they might be right as they are prospering and i live with the consequences of my own 'brave' decisions and actions
btw, the latest of my courageous undertaking was standing up to my own Chief Product Officer, after approx. 6 months of being bullied at work, by her - and then hearing that she was doing even worse things to others, at which point i concluded that only a psychopath would be able to behave the way she was behaving, and that she needs to be stopped.
i am now un-employed. i'm not done trying to stop her bullying people though, as other C/top level managers, those with enough power to actually do something about it, obviously have no intention of doing anything about it - and someone has to.
*The military has brothers and sisters conditioning .... so its easier for them to commit 'legalised' murder on behalf of their specific state ...... if we viewed ourselves as one connected species ... we might avoid this potentially dangerous divisiveness*
Love and devotion to the people who’ve committed their lives, one of the best ways to keep your love once to be with you hopefully for the rest of your lives. All the little things that really matter to them.
Be a dependable beta provider for a woman with gradually declining appeal as her biological clocks ticks it's way into her 30s. Her party years are over as her epiphany strikes - "Where did all the good guys go?!" she cries as she locks eyes with you, not yet reaching your prime as you enter your 30s.
"He's soooo good to me" she exclaims to her envious friends who have also tired of bedding those hot guys they could sway easily in their early 20s but now they too just want to secure a dependable Real Man to provide them with offspring.
Lock yourself down to one woman - be consistent for her.
Be the best a man can get.
Don't know why in every video this host has to take a posture with his shoe sole facing the audience/camera.. Looks gross.. Look at Simon he carries a true humble leaders quality with his both feet on the ground.
Romantizising corporotocracy. It is hijaacking a tribal need and the difference is that executives are the only ones driving away in a ferarri. Want to show your employees you love them pay them decent wages relative to the "leaders". Just to make the disconnected constantly changing insecure experience of 12 hour days bearable so that they do not need to assemble suicide nets like in Chinese sweatshops where they make our smartphones. Want to show love demonstrate some restraint and moderation billionaires.
People always talks about falling in love and being in love and love this love that, but what is love? No one has been able to show it to me. All I see when they claim to have it is a mutual beneficial agreement upon individuals or overly attached people that is super clingy or people who think they have the right to own others that they claim to be theirs nothing more. So what is this thing that people call love. Can anyone capture it and show it to the world.
“The test of love is sacrifice, and the gauge of love is unselfishness.” - Anthony De Mello. Consistency is a character of love, meaning forgetting the self consistently, being less centered on yourself (unselfish), that's a sacrifice.
I swear this made me realize that I don't mean anything to anyone. I really realized how much love I have put out and how much I love my family and no one loves me. I try my best. I give so much love and don't get it back. Man hearing this just makes me hurt even more
You are confusing people! Like maybe they can have what they want. Tell these wonderful people to get what they want cuz it is going to happen if they don't listen to you saying love is work. Love is not work it just is... It just is. It is not love it's better then that!!! Not sitting around telling people this degrading stuff. Be as 1 not as a individual who is now confused on 1... You just made 1... A 2 a 3 a 4 damn dog. You are telling people to settle. What's the love in that?
You are wrong... I picked up a girl I talk to on the phone earlier in a day being precistant. Never seen her before in my life. As she walk past my truck to get in the passenger side we both looked at each other the same time threw my windshield and love finally happened... We both talk about that day of the same time and unbelievable sense of completion of togetherness... We are still together now! You need to experience that cuz you are not helping anybody.
Some body help me. please?
I don't understand. Between 3:11 and 3:16
That anyone by themselves is innocuous and useless.
That anyone by themselves is innocuous and useless. Literally, pointless by themselves.
Thanks so much. Please tell me the meaning
+Cornelious1882 Hi Cornelious, I got it.
Thank you so much. After watched a little more, I think you're right. Thank you so much <3 I made the sub for young generation in my country. So your help is very meaningful
Nghi,He is making a point about leadership. So he is saying one person by themselves = may seem insignificant, uninteresting,useless. But that person can still show leadership by doing small little things each day consistently. Can build the inspiration,trust,to perform,belief,healthy work environment for his team over long term to achieve.I Hope that helps.
In the case of this person the speaker is right , all his deed to his girlfriend r visual n respond to her wish.
Look a girl wants to meet her friend, he refuses without giving any reason.
This is her wish.He knows n refuses to do .So he must stop this relation.
He is confusing love with feeling save and caring , what he is talking about is something you would call love if you never fell in love at first sight. Love tho is something which only can happen and grow when feeling save with eachother and will improve because of consistancy because it is predictable but they are two different things
As a business owner for 20+ yrs and with the same person for even more I can tell you from my experience this is true. The opposite can be true as well falling out of love, becoming out of shape and a failing business can all happen erode slowly over time. Create and build a healthy productive culture in a working environment and reward loyalty and value staff and it pays off over the longterm.
Dearest soul friend Fearless Soul, thank you.
This is truly Phenomenal and so true. Thank you for blessing us with this truth. I love this. God bless you for this today. It's a blessing to hear it and feel how it resonates with me. Unity, unconditional love and compassionate people bring undying love to our world.
My first job (and best job i'll ever have) my boss's name was sam. He owned the resturant and we had a staff of around 4-6. He would make us all dinner every night and sit down with us and eat and actually ask us how our day was and he talked to and treated us like we ere family. Their was never a day i dreaded going to work even though the work i did their was terrible. There was never a day i ever considered quitting. Every day i woke up and was looking forward to going to work because it was another family, another home. Good leaders are hard to find and good friends are harder and when you both both of this in one person never let go. My boss eventually got sick and had to close down the resturant
+Da Screenwriter that's why I ask the question, u get her!!! Buy her gift!!! Take care of her!!! Treat her like a princess!!! Pay for all her stuff an bills!!! Provide all the stuff she needs etc however if she doesn't love you it's your fault!!! The reporter should ask him what's love.. my definition is giving without expectations. I have yet to see a woman give anything without expectations... don't be fool by beauty, it will fade
The fact he asks for a number (calling it metric - whatever that means) shows he knows absolutely nothing about this subject.
I loved my true love long before we met - because I wrote many poems and sonnets in anticipation of meeting her.
She searched for me until an angel told her where I am.
Nevertheless ... we still have not held each other - yet our love defies all reasoning (metric or otherwise).
...and the world is still unable to comprehend what we have.
He just asked that question to prove that you can't exactly define the metric for things such as this. You can't have it this way where one day you are not in love and the next day you are. Consistency is the key.
You and your bae have been together for a while now. Youve passed that initial exciting spark phase. Youve passed the first "I love you." Maybe youve even passed the wedding vows. Things have slowed down now, though, and you eventually start thinking back to your single days. Its not necessarily that youre unhappy; its that you have an inexplicable longing for your single life routine. So what do you do with these feelings? Take advice from ladies who shared how to deal with wanting to be single, even when youre in a happy relationship, on a recent Reddit thread.
First of all,relax and be glad that you are living a completely normal life. This happens with all. We crave for the things that we miss in our lives,thats human nature. I think you take your relationship like a burden,just an assumption based on the fact that you search for isolation and peace when you are in a relationship. Maybe you should take it a bit lightly,give your partner their space and have some for yourself too. Enjoy it rather carrying it as a burden. I would recommend you make more friends and eventually you will find some people with whom you speak your heart out without the burden of a relationship. Just relax because this is what growing up is. This is faced by one and all. Best of luck.