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How To Make New Friends | 9 New Friend Finding Tips

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Small Talk Do's and Don'ts: http://www.iamalpham.com/index.php/topics/small-talk-skills-small-talk-dos-and-donts-with-papa-alpha/ Alpha M. Confidence Course: http://aaronmarino.com/confidence-course Subscribe To Alpha M. https://www.youtube.com/user/AlphaMconsulting?sub_confirmation=1 My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services and Products: http://www.aaronmarino.com Alpha M. App: http://www.alphamapp.com/ My Website: http://www.iamalpham.com My Services: http://www.aaronmarino.com Free Hairstyle E-Book: http://http://www.iamalpham.com/ezine Best Hair Product: http://www.peteandpedro.com FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/IAmAlphaM In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of http://www.iamalpham.com and http://www.aaronmarino.com, talks about how to make new friends. Finding new friends is not as easy as it sounds, but if you know the process and steps that will increase the chance of you running into your new best friend, you are one step closer to finding that new friend. Friendship is not about whom you've know the longest; it's about who came and never left your side. Aaron Marino of alpha m. has been doing a lot of soul searching lately and he's been considering who he calls 'friends'. These people aren't acquaintances but 'true friends' that you can probably count on one hand. Alpha talks about 'friends by proxy'. He also discusses what happens when you graduate from high school. At this point there's a fork in the road: people stay and people leave. The dilemma during this change is not having friends. How do you make new friends? It's not easy but it's possible by being willing to be uncomfortable and putting yourself out there. Set yourself for success. Friend Finding Tips 1. Spend time around people - if you isolate yourself, you can't make new friends. Be social like going to a sporting event, visiting a coffee shop, go to a bar. 2. Join a club, group, or organization - you'll meet like-minded people 3. Volunteer - do something good for the community while building a bond and camaraderie with those around you 4. Start conversations - talk to everybody! Sometimes the conversations will stick, thus a friendship is started. 5. Small talk - Small Talk Skills 6. Reintroduce yourself at the end of a conversation - get that name to stick! 7. Accept every invitation 8. Ask other people to do things - push yourself outside of your comfort zone and ask others to do things like lunch, coffee, drink, see a concert 9. Keep your friend - be a good friend by listening, being loyal, being trustworthy, being reliable, being yourself
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Indrid Cold (22 hours ago)
Is it even necessary to have friends in the 21st century. As cruel as people are in modern times, I opted out of having friends 19 years ago. People made me miserable. I simply deleted all of them. What I considered friends and my girlfriend 19 years ago used, betrayed, and painfully abandoned me. I never want to repeat the experiences of 19 years ago again, even if I never have a girlfriend or friend ever again. There are far worse things than being lonely.
Rhiannon Seciwa (2 days ago)
I came here because i dont have friends, im lonely
Sonya Dobrotvor (17 hours ago)
I'm too. Let's be lonely together)
MoistyMatthewK (2 days ago)
Is this a girl or a boy?
Arcaryon Xavier (2 days ago)
When you haven't talked to someone in 6 months you kinda loose a basic ability which is more odd than one would believe theoretically.
Thãnos (3 days ago)
"Cries in the corner"
Busisiwe Magubane (3 days ago)
yep my life is boring and i have no friends thats why i am here
KOLA JOTY (4 days ago)
2:08
Leo Lionel (4 days ago)
It's really bad when you need to search this? Sad life!
I have a tip, be yourself: I used to be desperate for friends. Thus, I wasn't being myself. One day, I didn't know what to do when a nerd and a bad boy talked to me. From there, they knew I wasn't being try to myself. And they started bullying me. After elementary school, I started being socially awkward and I had very low self-esteem 'til now.
ALEX IMAN (7 days ago)
I would like to have new friend, but my English not very well :) my skype aleximant go talk
Mason Calhoun (8 days ago)
Who want frenfd
Sonya Dobrotvor (17 hours ago)
May be i can be your online friend if u want)
Mason Calhoun (8 days ago)
I have no fucking friends lmao
It's Pedro (8 days ago)
Wanna be friends??
Vegito 1 (8 days ago)
I dont have friends. I consider my school "friends" more like aquatences
Mina Stamenkovic (8 days ago)
I literally love you
64NERD (9 days ago)
I get bored in class waiting for it to end. I need more friends to distract myself lol
xxвαвy cнєrry (12 days ago)
The fact that I searched this up and watched this makes me feel lonely af
Lawrencium TSG (12 days ago)
My friends hang out with me when I'm cool, but sometimes they ditch me 😢 Sorry for the edit
SalSlomy (12 days ago)
I came here because three of my "friends" decided to betray me and now are trying to manipulate the whole class against me D: but at least i dont have to be fake friends with them
Donna Cone (13 days ago)
Don’t forget finding friends at CHURCH ⛪️
GYMNASTICS HD (14 days ago)
My friend dont want me to have a new friend i want a
Desi Boy (15 days ago)
bro it's hard to get friends when I talk to guys they think I'm weirdo or gay being attracted to them and when I speak to girls they will know you are coming for sex so the best solution is to get a dog and most of the friends they smoke drink and do drugs so 95% disadvantage and you will lose friends automatically if you don't do these things 4.9% church or religious or boring activities 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% actually friends who stand with you in happiness and sadness and loyal and positive
Imtpema Channel (15 days ago)
Starts at 2:06
Jenna Stama (17 days ago)
My life came to this typing in how to make friends like if u did it too 😭😭😭
k. Moshe (17 days ago)
I will be your friend you can message me to this victoriousmoses1@gmail.com I'm moses from India
Triggered T e e n (18 days ago)
I know this guy...I think I saw him on TV?
Bryson the Mad Pencil (18 days ago)
In order to find friends you need to find a life.
Endi Rusu (20 days ago)
Thank you so much i was just so sad im was single im was even poor and you helped me
Endi Rusu (20 days ago)
Thanks now i not alone
Night Owl (21 days ago)
Whenever i have 1 freind that one freind is freinds with about like 10 or 5 people so when they hangout with my 1 freind ill just be like wassup
FreakFearBeats (24 days ago)
Ok. But waht if my face is ugly? What i need to do?
Wizard gaming 787 (26 days ago)
This is what happened to me when I tried to make a friend (3 storys) 1 Me: hey Him: hey Me: sooooooooooo wanna be friends? Him: sure? Me: okkk *awkward silence* Him: see ya 2 Him: hey (my name) Me: *thinks* how in the world does this guy even know my name? Him: want to be FrIeNdS Me: ok? I haven’t spoken to this guy in 8 months 3 (this was in 2nd grade) Him: hey Me: hey Him: wanna play TaG? Me: ok I’m gonna “call” my 6 friends to play too Him: ok 👍 Me: *spends 5minutes finding friends from 100 ft playground* Me: okay we’re playing infection though Him: okay! Everyone: *arguing on who will be the tagger* My best friend: ILL BE THE TAGGER! Me: loooool let’s hide behind him Mathew: *runs away knowing my idea was stupid* Best friend: Tags 4 people To this day my best friend is still searching for us with his infected people
Darzae Alonzo (26 days ago)
I’m a disappointment.
Michael Mwangi (23 days ago)
No you're not😭😭 Youre important to me🙂
veress samu (28 days ago)
I say one thing, 1...
Roscila Gem (29 days ago)
I tried everything you told me to do but it doesn't work
Roscila Gem (29 days ago)
Hi sthf
Roscila Gem (29 days ago)
Hp
Leafychu (30 days ago)
im not going to make friends......?
Winnie T (1 month ago)
I am an introvert..i only have one friend n she is in a different town... i moved to a different town for work n its been three years now, havent found a friend other than my husband... i found myself here today, i got to find myself a new friend
Noah Saunders (1 month ago)
I'm very special, but I still don't have any friends. Maybe I'm too special?
DIAMOND MINERAFT KING (1 month ago)
am lonly 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
DIAMOND MINERAFT KING same😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿😿
Tailslap (1 month ago)
This really helped thx
Vivian Oliver (1 month ago)
This is so basic and bitchy
I have 0 friends and 500 on internet
Alyric Tiana (1 month ago)
Pauses search history Pauses watch history...
parthaprotim borthakur (1 month ago)
Is everyone get one best friend in their life
parthaprotim borthakur (1 month ago)
Is everyone get one best friend in their life
Gamal Alkobadi (1 month ago)
but people dont wanna be my friends ;( at school
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Gamal Alkobadi I’m homeschooled so I don’t even have school as a option
Xxcinnamon xX (1 month ago)
I’m just here cause I need friends………
k. Moshe (17 days ago)
+Brooklyn Alisea I'm moses from India can we
k. Moshe (17 days ago)
Yeah can we friends now I'm moses from India
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Xxcinnamon xX Same
Rajashree Apshinge (1 month ago)
6:23 thanks for telling me this
Summer Bailey (1 month ago)
I already have a lot of friends I don't know why I'm watching this
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Mr.Potato Head (1 month ago)
how does one make friends when all their prospects are toxic people. For example, in my area drinking and partying is a favored past time. I don't mind the occasional party here and their but i don't like over doing this as i want to be successful in life and stay motivated. Any advice?
Just Filip (1 month ago)
Do what you like, dont force yourself to it just because you want to make friends. Focuse on things to improve yourself. Try to learnd new skills, for example language. And you can meet many more new people and befriend them. Wish luck!
Abby Smith (1 month ago)
I’m stuck in a closet watching this If your reading this I don’t have Any friends
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Same😕
Just Filip (1 month ago)
That's sad. :(
Shane&Sandra Greenwood (1 month ago)
i watched this video cause i don't have any friends
I wont go to everything im.invited to, i dont drink, and the club scene is not me, i do however volenteer
Pizza Hut (1 month ago)
Needed this because I’m lonely
Samuel Fey (1 month ago)
Ive been feeling lonely lately idk why but it makes me sad I want to have best friends idk how Ive never felt this way I wonder if thats the reason why men built familys I hate kids btw and compromise
Kiera Cox (1 month ago)
I have friends, I just need a fresh start, new friend groups and such. I am going to start middle school next year, and I’m so scared😬😪😰😨😓😭😢Somone help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Crimson Heart (1 month ago)
Guys - we're all literally looking for friends - let's stop acting like we don't already have something in common ! - let's link up let's try. I'm mostly looking for girl friends, already have ENOUGH guy friends although they are mostly superficial haha. I can never really fully connect with guys, it's weird.
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Hi! I’m up for it
Lina Walker (1 month ago)
Crimson Heart I’m down😂
meh amv's (1 month ago)
I came here because my best friend is having a birthday party and she invited a tonne of her friends that I never met -~-
Nada Alsaad (1 month ago)
You’ve got such a great charisma, love your personality.
Zack Wright (1 month ago)
I've only had very few friends I never initiate conversation I'm 19 and I haven't talked to anyone outside my family since middle school I have no real hobbies I feel so disconnected from society and my life is so boring I feel like just giving up I don't know how going to a bar is gonna make me any friends I'd probably just waste my money on the overpriced alcohol and cry on my way home I feel like I have no purpose all I do with my life is watch YouTube when I get bored of that I have an existential crisis about how meaningless my life is until I find something to hold my attention on YouTube I don't see much of a point to living when all I feel is numbness followed feelings of isolation purposelessness self doubt
Whitty Castle (1 month ago)
I agree with everything except “say yes to every invitation”. Not every invitation is one that will lead you to GOOD friendships.
tmw you comment im super sad and lonely to get likes
fabrice assoumatine (1 month ago)
Lol , real alpha don't seek for freind. We are so busy for that. Only freind I have made since then is in competition. All my freind was my challengers wether in school or in sport. I have no freind for drink or partying because I am not stupid enough to wast time in bars or night club. People outside hate me and are afraid of me at the same time because u am the man you can mess with. You can play the game of being alpha mal near girls but when I arrive in the area all bullshit have to stop because I will make you weak
varush rou (1 month ago)
I live in canada but I came from other country my problem is I am little shy and I cant speak English well so it very hard to talk with others and make friends if I go somewhere some people like to talk with me they come to talk but when they got to know I cant speak English well they started to avoid me what should I do?
Just Filip (1 month ago)
Practice english probably. That's great oportunity to practice and get better. Wish you luck
I had a best friend but she lives to far away and everything I do to make a new friend does not work
younes rammach (1 month ago)
who wants to be my friend 🤦‍♂️
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Hi! I’m down
younes rammach (1 month ago)
+zuffi i'd like to but i don't use Instagram any way this is my WhatsApp:+212601862028 ⚘
zuffi (1 month ago)
I'm Alex! I'm 19 years since last old girl. If u want to friendship with me, I will give u my Instagram..@alexfraklin 😊
younes rammach (1 month ago)
+zuffi really !! my pleasure ok i'm Younes 32 years old 🤗🤗
May Thet Htoo (1 month ago)
Awn i am not alone being antisocial :')
AyyJay (1 month ago)
*If you're reading this* I'll be your friend. No joke.
Cyrus John (1 month ago)
Lone Wolfs, silent types, serious types, angry faces, aggressive men, have Hard time to make connection
Rainbowfire 1302 (1 month ago)
I have no friends;(
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Rainbowfire 1302 same😕
Floppy Potato (1 month ago)
I have trouble making friends. I’m in middle school and I think I’m pretty nice to people. But this one “friend” of mine (used to be best friends) would always put me down. Say things like “what are you wearing *laugh that is meant to be rude but sounds friendly” or just always judge me. I would always laugh it off. I think it really lowered my self esteem. She wasn’t always like this. She was a good friend but just these little comments would make me feel bad. I don’t have social anxiety but everybody already has a friend group and I feel like I won’t fit in. And even my friends who I like won’t ask me to hang out, and when I ask them if they want to hangout, they always say things like ok yeah! But then it never happens. So back to this girl who makes comments. She really makes me feel bad about myself but I don’t want to tell her because I will feel weak. In my class, she is a try hard. So when we were put into groups of 6, she was in my group and was trying to be funny (*cough* try hard *cough*) and then in front of everybody says “why are u being so antisocial?” And in my head I’m like, seriously? Antisocial? Ur not letting me talk. Okay? I’m basically always in ur shadow and u never give me a chance to speak, and yet u call me antisocial. I’ve recently actually become sort of antisocial because of her hurtful comments. I get scared to talk to people, I’ve become awkward. And it’s not all because of her. (And I’m not about to trash my mother) but whenever my friend or her friend talks to me while I’m busy, I don’t know what to say so I say “hi” and get back to what I was doing. Them my mom goes ahead and says to them, “sorry she’s socially awkward.” One time we got in a fight about this and how she embarrassed me. Even my dad agrees. With everybody stuck in their friend group, nobody is looking to make new friends, so I never even have a chance. Whenever I’m walking with the “rude comment” girl, and she sees another friend that she likes, she goes and ditches me. We are currently fighting rn and I can tell she tries to make me jealous by talking with her friends all the time and laughing with them. I just know it. I guess she’s not someone I should be friends with I guess I became a little jealous too. She has so many friends. (Of course she’s not really popular but she does have a lot of friends) but I guess I’m not that nice because I get happy whenever the popular people in school talk about how they hate her. I know I have some real friends because whenever I call myself ugly (and not fishing for compliments) they say “no don’t say that. U are not ugly”, whether they mean it or not, it feels nice I know I shouldn’t be complaining because some people have it way worse than me but I just thought I had to say something Sorry u had to read all that
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
I’m in middle school to but i do homeschool so it’s really hard to make friends
Crimson Heart (1 month ago)
Hey you seem really cool ! - wanna link up?.
Lucien Kennedy (1 month ago)
Almost everyone hates me.. but I’m okay. I‘m.. o.. kaaaaaaaayy 😭😭😭
Just Filip (1 month ago)
Comment section never! :)
Sgt. Pepper (2 months ago)
this dude is so gay.
Rohit's Track (2 months ago)
Sympathy to them who come here for make friends.. 😢😭😢
Unica Serkovicbi (2 months ago)
I dont have a friends
Unica Serkovicbi (20 days ago)
Most of my childhod i had no friends in kinder garded i was bulied and when my mom singh me up for a art coumatiton and i was bulied there by some girls then i went to a publik school and it was hell girls started piking on me and caling me fat and i had an eating disorder but i stopet it in 2nd grade they coverd my eyes and stabed me whit a pencil now im in 4ht grade and i barely have friends
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Unica Serkovicbi Same I do homeschool so I literally have no friends
Linda Thao (2 months ago)
But no one cares about me it is okay don't really care anymore who needs friends but I don't
Heart_StoneXD (2 months ago)
All around are familiar faces warnout places warnout places
Chicken Ninja Pirate (2 months ago)
all of us must be really sad if we're watching this
Ousman Kocer (2 months ago)
YouTube is the dad I never had
abubakarsiddiq Sheik (2 months ago)
Me: hi The guy: hi Me:pubg? The guy: yes Became friends
Monster King (2 months ago)
I hate people
grapecoco (2 months ago)
people people, how to make friends? easy as being brave enough to be yourself; we dont have a heathy social enviroment because every1 trys to look like someone alse, so ppl alike wont find each other. also because the very few who dare to be themself , at some point gets tired of being considered weird or crazy and will stay "better alone than..." so, be friend with youself and show appreciation to genuine beings! and follow your instints... if u think that red eyes and nose, creepy eyebrows y beard (video guy lol) are not good, just keep going 😁
KHMusic (2 months ago)
Why is your neck so red?
Penpaland Team (2 months ago)
I recommend https://www.penpaland.com to make new friends online for free
Diamond Man0514 (2 months ago)
I’m a good looking guy but sadly have friends that don’t talk to me that much or sometimes act like I don’t exist around other cooler people so I try to just stay in the back of the class and look out the window hoping one day i can try to find that one real good true friend and hopefully find more that would care :(
BluePoop (2 months ago)
If you’re watching this video, you’re a lonely virgin
IvysTea (2 months ago)
Ok so I do have friends but they are sNakEs. So, I want to make new friends. Lol’z
IvysTea (19 days ago)
Oof I’m sorry
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
IvysTea Hi! All my friends are like that to
Matthis Roche (2 months ago)
thanks for youre tips now i have on friend my cat
Simple Nature (2 months ago)
took 1 look at this dude and noped right out. if you're taking tips from a guy in his late 40s with those earrings in his ears you're doin it wrong.
Ismail Nassar (2 months ago)
هل فى المجتمع العربى ينفع
Gabriel Castillo (2 months ago)
1. You can't, Friends is already made back in nineteen ninety-something
SuperiorSceptile 18 (2 months ago)
I wanna make more friends in my school but its just sooo hard.Most of my friends in 5th grade are now going with there friends in there classes.Not too mention that i got put in a class were i have no friends, my only friend is this trouble maker thwt is out with his own friends he made in 5th grade.And im just here looking for more friends but cant make any becaude im antisocial and pretty dirty minded. WAT DO I DO
Brooklyn Alisea (20 days ago)
Hi! I relate to this a lot
2019 Nissan GT-R (2 months ago)
Want to know how to get friends? Memes
Brayan Vaquero (2 months ago)
lol this didn't help me ,cause I'm gringy ,people call me weird for being silly and I talk alot, when I do find friends they become pretty close to me and then I do something that fucks up everything
SuperiorSceptile 18 (2 months ago)
Same dude i just had this friend until we were playing dodge ball in gym class and after the game i called him trash for him not aiming when throwing the ball and then he got really mad and hasnt talked to me since i feel like i should applogize
Onyi A. (2 months ago)
I think some people should change if they have bad qualities
SpicyJoe (2 months ago)
I ain’t lonely, I just have non of my friends in any of my periods... 😔
SuperiorSceptile 18 (2 months ago)
Same
Connor Russo (2 months ago)
So I was homeschooled for a long time which was amazing. But now I’m in highschool and I’m a lot more mature then everyone els and I know people but not people who I would hang out with outside of school. I’m a huge hockey fan and a great hockey player and I’m on a team and I get along with everyone really well on that team but not at school. What should I do?
Jon Moore (2 months ago)
Havent had friends for over a year now. All my life people just come and go, I never had a friend for more than 4 years. I used to have an okay amount of friends though and even a few girlfriends, but right when I graduated highschool in 2017 it all went away. I spend every day alone and I'm so lonely I feel physically sick. Too much other things are happening in my life now as well, so I have no energy to try to interact with anybody. I thought I had it bad before, but it seems to always get worse and worse every time I think that. I wish things could be okay, I wish I could be okay, but the world doesn't care. Please, even if you have one friend, please cherish them. One friend is so much better than none, and that is all I really need anymore.
SPY GAMERS (2 months ago)
It easy to make friends on game hard to get friend in real life
The Official YEEMEN (2 months ago)
OK a way, when the teacher says who wants to..... And u put your hand up, and and u get picked smile and say YESSSSSSSS and everyone will laugh.

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